Two student athletes sitting on a soccer field, one with their head held low.
Two student athletes sitting on a soccer field, one with their head held low.
Two student athletes sitting on a soccer field, one with their head held low.

Student Athlete Mental Health: Tips for Parents and Coaches 

Updated April 27, 2026

Participating in sports can provide children and teens with fitness, fun, confidence, companionship and great memories. But mental health problems can be part of the picture, too.

Davy Phrathep, Ph.D., sports and performance psychologist in the Johns Hopkins All Children’s Hospital Center for Behavioral Health offers insights on student athlete mental health and how parents and coaches can support kids’ well-being.

  • Youth sports offer significant benefits such as increased physical activity, healthy lifestyle habits and stronger academic goals.
  • Mental health challenges, such as anxiety, burnout and unhealthy perfectionism, can arise when young athletes face pressure, unrealistic expectations or start tying their self‑worth to athletic performance.
  • Parents and coaches can support student athletes by encouraging balance, fostering healthy coping skills and helping them navigate stress and emotional setbacks.

Playing Sports: Benefits for Children and Teens

If your child or teen is interested in taking up sports lessons or trying out for a team, that is good news, says Phrathep. He notes there are many benefits of youth sports participation, including increased physical activity, problem-solving, teamwork, life skills, and enhanced confidence in the person’s ability to achieve specific goals.

According to a study of adolescent health behaviors in the U.S., student athletes are more likely than their nonathlete peers to engage in health-promoting behaviors such as daily physical activity, sleeping at least seven hours a night and fostering a more balanced and supportive relationship with nutrition. High-school student athletes also appear to be more competent in school and have higher expectations to continue education beyond high school compared with nonathletes. A third key finding is that student athletes report higher perceived self-esteem and are more confident in their ability to achieve specific goals compared with their nonathlete peers.

Negative Effects of Youth Sports on Mental Health

As fun and beneficial as sports can be for children and teens, there are some potential pitfalls. For young people with still-developing self-image and self-regulation skills, the strong emotions and internal and external pressures associated with playing sports can be difficult to cope with.

Increased physical activity often means increased risk of injury. This is particularly true for youth who specialize in a single sport before reaching puberty and engage in year-round training with insufficient periods of rest.

Exceptionally talented or highly skilled children and adolescents who have the opportunity to compete at an elite level from a young age often need additional attention and support. “This can be a very challenging period, as an athlete’s reasons for playing their sport may evolve, often requiring additional support as they continue to grow and progress,” Phrathep says.

Young athletes can experience a variety of mental health problems tied to playing a sport, including:

Associating Winning with Self-Worth

A strong competitive instinct is the mark of a great athlete. But young athletes may take it particularly hard when a personal setback occurs. They may have an unrealistic standard for themselves and start to equate their athletic performance with self-worth.

It is important for young athletes to expect adversity, especially when they set high and meaningful goals. These setbacks often reflect the level they are challenging themselves to reach, rather than being a sign of inadequacy as an athlete or person.

“Young athletes often feel pressure from multiple sources, such as within themselves, as well as from parents and coaches, but their perspective on their goals makes a significant difference,” Phrathep says. When athletes have space to reflect on why they are pursuing certain goals, they are more likely to find meaning in their effort rather than just the outcome. That shift can help them stay motivated, bounce back from setbacks and maintain a healthier relationship with their sport over time.

Unhealthy Perfectionism in Sports

Some children have a strong sense of perfectionism, and it does not always benefit them in sports. An athlete striving for unhealthy perfection may:

  • Avoid taking risks and resist change for fear of failure
  • Be overly sensitive to criticism
  • Get frustrated over the smallest mistakes
  • Procrastinate or give up on difficult tasks
  • Downplay accomplishments or attribute them to luck instead of skill

“It is important to avoid rigid perfectionism. Focusing on very narrow, exacting standards or goals and treating them as nonnegotiable is risky. Something unforeseen, such as an injury, can mean taking time away from practice, for example, and a child or teen might stress out about getting behind,” Phrathep says.

Stress and Anxiety

Stress is the response of a person’s body and mind to challenge. It is the sense of not knowing if you have what it takes to master a situation that asks for a response or action. Stress is part of life and can be a byproduct of the excitement of sports and competition. But when there is too much stress, problems arise.

Young athletes can get stressed when they do not make the team, make a mistake, do not get the play time they want, or fall short of a metric they are working to achieve. Balancing sports participation with academics, hobbies, friends, family time and other social activities can also contribute to stress.

Even good stress can take a toll. A child or teen who is very excited about a big game, tryout or tournament can experience the effects of stress, even when it is in a positive context.

Symptoms of being stressed out can include:

  • Feeling on edge or overwhelmed OR “checked out” and apathetic
  • Panic attacks
  • Agitation
  • Avoidance (skipping practice, for example)
  • Voicing reluctance or dread about going to practice or competitions
  • Difficulty sleeping or sleeping more than usual
  • Stomach problems such as upset stomach, constipation or diarrhea
  • Headaches
  • Risk-taking behaviors such as problematic substance use

Sometimes, stress can fuel anxiety — the feeling of worry or fear. But anxiety can also develop on its own or linger after the cause of stress is removed. For example, young athletes may experience performance anxiety before a competition — a worry about a failure or mistake. Making a small mistake can reinforce this feeling and turn it into a looming fear of repeating the mistake. Parents and coaches who are focused on specific outcomes can intensify a fear of failing, heightening a young athlete’s anxiety.

It is useful to note if the stress symptoms are happening in other situations such as school or social activities, which can be a sign the child or teen is dealing with an anxiety disorder.

Depression in Young Athletes

Depression can affect anyone, even high-performing young athletes. There are many factors at play, including genetics and personality, as well as the pressures of youth sports, especially for elite athletes.

Depression in children can look like boredom, distractedness or low energy. A few days of the blahs or sadness is nothing to worry about. But if your child loses interest in their sport or other things they normally enjoy, stay alert. These signs, along with others such as a weekslong sad mood, change in appetite or sleep patterns and other symptoms warrant a trip to the doctor to rule out depression.

Burnout in Youth Sports

Parents can be very enthusiastic when their child shows an interest or aptitude in sports ― especially if they demonstrate unusual talent. But sometimes encouragement can become pressure. After concentrating on one sport for a while, young athletes may become tired of it, both emotionally and physically. Emotional and physical exhaustion, reduced sense of accomplishment and a feeling of declining value in the sport are all characteristics of burnout, according to researchers.

Burnout can affect children and teens in many ways. Signs of burnout in young athletes can include:

  • Going to practice without the usual enthusiasm
  • Choosing to spend more time away from the sport
  • Feeling overly defeated and discouraged after losses or setbacks
  • Appearing fatigued or disinterested
  • Expressing desire to quit the sport

What Parents and Coaches Can Do

Negative effects of youth sport participation like injury, performance anxiety and burnout do not discriminate based on the type of sport. Athletes involved in individual and team sports can be affected. But there are things athletes, parents, coaches and mentors can do to help build resilience and keep fun in sports.

Open a Dialogue and Listen

If you suspect something is taking a toll on your child or teen’s mental health, acknowledge any signs of anxiety or burnout. Ask open-ended questions about your observations and listen with the desire to understand, Phrathep says.

“‘I’ve noticed that …’ is a great place for parents to start,” he says. For instance, saying, “I have noticed that you don’t seem to be having as much fun at soccer practice in the last couple of weeks” gives the child or teen an opening to gradually explore any stressors or events that have affected them.

Evaluate the Extent of the Problem

One of the goals is to determine whether the athlete does not want to face a specific one-time situation or if it is a case of an ongoing stress, burnout, anxiety or depression.

“For a child or teen with a persistent pattern of mental health symptoms lasting two to four weeks, it may be time to consult a mental health professional. For teens, it helps to ask them if they want to talk to someone,” Phrathep suggests.

Set Meaningful and Achievable Goals

Parents, guardians and coaches can help young athletes build resilience by establishing an emotional foundation — a “why.” It is an internalized framework of strong values that prepares the athlete to face challenges, keeps them centered and helps sustain the athlete through the ups and downs.

The “why” should be more about learning and growing and finding meaning ― and less about winning or avoiding failure ― so the sport continues to be rewarding for the long term.

Parents, coaches and mentors can also help young athletes understand that events related to competition in most cases do not have permanent life-altering consequences. Whether it is a thrilling victory or an agonizing defeat, most athletes learn, “This, too, shall pass.”

Make Time for Breaks

Phrathep notes that parents and guardians can work with coaches to give kids appropriate breaks from training. Rest is equally necessary for building physical and psychological adaptation to stress. For elite athletes, building in rest and recovery breaks throughout the competitive season helps create a framework for the rest of their athletic career.

Keep Sports Fun

And, Phrathep says, it is important to keep sports fun. During childhood and teen years, natural talents emerge, and the ones that are genuinely enjoyable can become lifelong passions.

“Fun should definitely be part of the narrative,” he emphasizes. Developing attitudes of passion, curiosity and courage in sport participation are equally as important as developing speed, strength and technical skills.

Together, adults can help ground children and teens in a better “why”: the joy and values and learning. These are all good reasons for being involved in activities that can be hard on the body and the emotions.

Medically reviewed by Davy Phrathep, Ph.D.

Pediatric Care at Johns Hopkins Medicine

  • Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital

    The Center for Behavioral Health in the Institute for Brain Protection Sciences at Johns Hopkins All Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg, Florida, provides evidence-based mental health screening, consultation, evaluation and treatment.

  • Johns Hopkins Children's Center

    The Division of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at Johns Hopkins Children's Center in Baltimore, Maryland offers hospital-based intensive evaluation and treatment programs, as well as outpatient services

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